You know who I feel bad for… People who are just starting to date in 2016! I mean… when I started on the dating scene it was kinda simple! There wasn’t websites involved, or nude photo text requirements, or swiping… You just went out to a bar, and spent a bunch of money until some girl drinks enough to think you’re cute! Those were the days! Now dating is done all online! Seriously! People have become to depended upon online dating to find the one that we honestly might as well date our phones! The only thing you can’t do with a phone is have sex with it, and I’m pretty sure there are even apps out there for that!
So if you’re already having a hard time keeping up with the dating trends, the last thing you want is for it to get more annoying!
Well science and BroBible have your back! Here are 5 annoying dating habits that you should try to avoid!
#1 – Ghosting… Sounds sexual doesn’t it? Well it’s not… Ghosting is probably the most annoying thing that can happen to you while dating! It’s when a person just one day cuts off communication with you, and disappears like a ghost. You know what that’s called in my book? Being a coward! The easy way out after leading someone on! And you know what, I’m guilty of it, and I bet you’ve done it before too!
#2 – Social Media Stalking… You know that moment when your phone goes off with a Instagram notification, so you check it out and it’s your random tinder date liking everything you’ve ever posted! That can be weird! I think for a guy it’s more flattering, but if you’re a lady who likes to take a lot of underwear selfies (Which is like all girls on Instagram!) that can be kinda sketchy! Or when guys are commenting on Facebook photos you posted a year ago! Clearly you’re being creeped by this person haha!
#3 – Sending Naked Photos… This is where you see a big difference in sexes. I don’t think I’ve ever heard a guy say “Oh man… This chick just sent me a nude photo… wtf?” but if a guy sends an unsolicited photo of his junk to a lady… There’s probably going to be an issue haha! In fact, the article I’m basing this one off of, suggests that more women should text nude photos to their date. Now I don’t know if I agree with that… I mean… I feel you need a certain level of trust before you bust out the girls for a photo shoot.
#4 – Not Responding… Dating is a commitment! Doesn’t matter how you want to look at it! Dating takes work, which means taking the time to reply to the person you’re interested in! If you’re only responding to someone you’re dating once or twice a day, or maybe even waiting a couple of days, you’re obviously not feeling it, and you should just ghost them… I’m kidding! Ghosting is mean! Just tell them you’ve been busy, and can’t commit! Anything other than ghosting!
#5 – Leading on… I think we’ve all been there! I think we’ve all felt like there was a connection while the other person was thinking “Should I get chicken or steak tonight?” Fact is some people have that really bubbly, touchy, feely, kinda attitude which can be taken as flirtatious. Part of being leaded on rests on your shoulders too! Signs like touching, and hugging, cannot be considered flirtatious anymore! Even simple kisses can’t be thought of as affection anymore! That’s why I bluntly ask, and if it’s a no… I go home and play Xbox! Which is super FUN!
Alright… there are some of the annoying habits of dating you can expect to happen during 2016! Just keep your eyes open for the signs, and I say if someone playing a game with you… It’s better to ghost a ghoster then to let a ghoster ghost you… Just sayin…
Time for the POLL!!! Which of these dating habits do you find the most annoying?
~ Dean @Valentine_1069.